Dear men…
No matter how much you love a woman, there are some things you should never do just to please her.
You have the responsibility as a man to make your woman happy, but there should be a limit. As a man, you have an ego to protect, and you should not let a woman ruin it or take advantage of you just because you love her.
Never do these five things to please a woman:
1. Pay her school fees
Never pay for a woman’s education unless she is your wife. It is acceptable to assist and support her while she is in school, but paying for her entire education is a no-no. If you feel compelled to do it, don’t expect her to be forever grateful to you. People change, and she may choose to love someone else despite your efforts.
2. Commit a crime for her
If you can’t afford her extravagant lifestyle, don’t steal or do something stupid just to please her. If she truly loves you, she will understand when you are broke and will not put pressure on you to solve her financial problems.
3. Compromise your needs for hers
You should be a little selfish with yourself unless absolutely necessary. You can’t go hungry just so you can send her money to buy food. You can share what you have, but never give up everything just to make her happy.
4. Disrespect your family
Women can be extremely manipulative, especially when they know you adore them and will go to any length to keep them. Some will try to distance you from your family members by demonstrating how bad they are. If she ever abandons you, the only people who will support you will be your family. So, never cut your family ties to please her.
5. Forget your dreams
Remember that before you met her, you had your own dreams and goals. Don’t give up just because she doesn’t like what you’re doing. The last thing you want to do if you wanted to study abroad is change your mind because she is not comfortable with it. If she can’t wait, let her be, but never give up on your dreams just to please a woman.
